The only thing on my mind the past few days has been Hailey Owens. I know a lot of other people who feel the same way. We decided that the only way we could handle it is to help her family in any way we can, and try to keep anything like this from ever happening again. Below is information on a candlelight vigil, and a fund you can donate to. Plus, I've added the tips I shared yesterday from Springfield Public School on helping children deal with crisis. Hopefully this helps in any way. 
 
 

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Memorial Fund at Empire Bank


A family member opened up a fund at Empire Bank for the family of Hailey Owens. Visit any Empire Bank location to donate. Call 881-3100 for more information about the fund.
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From the Springfield Public Schools

"As three of our schools have been directly impacted by a recent event, The SPS guidance and counseling department shares the following tips for parents to help students who are experiencing crisis."

• Keep your child informed and updated. Children need to feel involved and as in control as much as possible.
• Watch for signs of distress. Loss of appetite, aggression, acting out, being withdrawn, sleeping disordered and other behavior changes can indicate problems.
• Send your child to school if possible. The stability and routine of a familiar situation will help young people feel more secure.
• Remember that everyone reacts to stress and/or grief in different ways. There is no one way to act in a crisis situation.
• Allow children the opportunity to express feelings. It is important to validate these feelings.
• A good diet and plenty of exercise are important for children who are under stress. Encourage your child to eat well and get plenty of exercise.
• Be honest about your own concerns, but stress your and your child's ability to cope with the situation.
• Respect a child's need to grieve.
• Provide somewhere private and quiet for your child to go.
• Be available and listen to your child.
• Remember to take care of yourself.